Note: I am writing strictly from a guy's perspective here.
The typical Christian answer would be: "See them as God sees them?" Alright, then, how do I do that? It's easier than it sounds, people. Also: "Beauty is on the inside." True, but I can like a girl's personality all I want, but if I don't find her attractive otherwise, how does that work? I mean, I'd like to think that I would view my future spouse as a very beautiful woman (inside AND out).
Anyway, I really don't think there's an actual answer for all this. I will say this (and it goes for both guys and girls): there's nothing wrong with thinking that one person is more attractive than the other. I'm not saying we shouldn't voice our opinion amongst our friends, but I just don't like getting the sense that a guy would write a girl off (or vice versa) as not worth his/her time because he/she isn't attractive enough. I've just noticed that in L.A. it's all about appearance, and I get tired of hearing, and saying, the aforementioned quotes. I think the female gender, as a whole, is beautiful because they were created as such. Now, whether I, personally find a any specific girl attractive or not is different...or is it? I really don't know what to think. I just want to hear other people's thoughts because I'm quite frustrated over it at the moment.
To all the girls reading this, you are beautiful, and I say that genuinely. To all the guys reading this, please keep me accountable in how I talk about women.
Give your thoughts now!
2 comments:
Hey Andy... thanks for telling me i'm beautiful! ;) How are you? How's LA? Life here is hectic crazy busy and stressful!! Seems like i never get a break! lol... well just thought i'd say hey! :D Have a wonderful day!!
Zaneta
i'm doing wonderful! LA's great, but i'm ready for a retreat, and i'm going to get just that when I go to the JH Ranch this summer to work for 12 weeks (it's the camp i've worked at the past few summers). I'm so pumped for it. I hope you get a break soon. God bless!
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